Hello Folks,

 Thanks for the e-mail, I'm really glad you wrote my wife and I back.  Our meeting at Outback was in God's hands.  It was meant to be I'm sure of that.  Let me just tell you a little about my background in the Marine Corps.  As you already know I was in 3/3, stationed in Hawaii as was your son, I was in India Company from '89-'93.  I was in the first Desert Storm '90-'91.  I was an Infantry man and a Sniper with 3/3.  I joined as an Infantry man and then about a year and half later took the needed tests to be selected for STA platoon, which is a specialized platoon for training to become a Sniper.  About 4 months later from that platoon I was chosen to attended Sniper school.  After passing the school, I continued my tour as a Sniper.  I was in Desert Storm for 7 months.  I won't go into detail about that war as you already know what war is like.  I was also trained as a Scout Swimmer in the Corps.  A person who gets dropped out about 500-1000 yrds. in the water and swims inland with full gear to do a beach Recon and prepare for the assaulting troops to follow in Amtracks.  Anyway, after my tour I tried to stay in but do to everyone joining the Military during the Gulf War, I had to be an E-4 to reenlist for the first time.  I was only an E-3 so I was forced out I should say.  The Corps was Awesome and I'm very proud to always be a Marine.

 Now, I'm a Federal Police Officer still protecting the United Sates and its people that live within, I love it.  That's Awesome that your son, Joseph is going to run the Marine Corps Marathon along with your nephew.  What an Honor, to run it for a fallen Marine and a brother too.  I hope to be able to meet your son, Joseph and your Daughter, Mary-Pride one day?  I feel that meeting you has added another branch onto my family tree.  God has allowed you to share your story of Courage, Bravery and Sacrifice to me and for that I am grateful to him to your family.  I really enjoyed reading how you came to have gone to Outback in the first place, after a year of holding onto that gift card.  You could've used it anytime prior to that night, but the Lord was saving it for a special moment.  I'm really glad you came to talk to me that night, after the little head nod from your husband I thought nothing else further.  Just one Marine to another, saying hello.  I'm glad you chose to stop by.  To have the brochure too, mmmmmmm.  Yeah this is God's doing no doubt.  In Desert Storm I came close to losing my life, while breeching a mine field by hand, one blew up near me and sent me flying a little ways.  The only injury I received was shrapnel in my right knee, no where else was I injured.  The Lord had answered my prayer that day to keep my safe.  In closing just know that I plan on being there in October, as I believe my wife stated we don't golf, unless it's Putt-Putt.  So, golfing I will leave up to the pros.  Please write back when you can.  This account is my e-mail address and the other one is my wife's.  Don't hesitate to call if you need something I could help with.  Also, don't know if my wife told you folks or not, but my parents live in Rehoboth beach.  I have been going to the beach ever since I was a little baby, my grandparents lived in the house that my parents live in now.  When my grandparents passed they took over the house.  My grandfather served 30yrs. in the Air Force and two yrs. in the Army before the Air force both branches as a Medical Doctor and is credited with establishing the first M.A.S.H. Unit.  He is also buried at Arlington.  Seems like my story ties in with your life.  Let me go, didn't know I was going to write so much.  Take care and I'll leave you folks with this.  This is my saying.............."Freedom has a Flavor the Protected Will Never Know."

Semper Fi,
Joe

 To Nicholas my fellow Marine and brother in Arms, may your Sacrifice for this Country never be forgotten, thanks for keeping me safe from enemies Foreign and Domestic.  Watch over me as a Marine should while I continue protecting this fine Nation.  I know you'll have my six.  Semper Fi, Marine.

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Many people leave messages for Nick at legacy.com:

Hi,
It is September 8th and I'm thinking of you guys. (Actually it may be the 9th but it is late at night and I was hoping to make it by the 8th.) I truly think of you each and every day and pray for all of you as well as Nicholas.  Every month when it is the 8th, I hold a special place in my heart and prayer for you all, above and beyond the normal day.
I pray you are getting stronger every day and I know Nicholas is looking down and taking care of all of you. Maybe it is being married to a military guy for the last 22 years but I really "get it'" and from the bottom of my heart, I thank you and your son for his sacrifice.  I hold you dear in my heart as good friends and fellow Americans.  God bless you and Nicholas in heaven.

Your loving friend,
Carolyn

“Nick is one of those people you are immediately attracted to. His personality is larger than life, and emulates from him in this magnetic aura, drawing you closer. He is a person that can always put the fun in a goodtime,….can lift your spirits when you are down, making a bad time good and a good time better. His sense of life is only second to his sense of humor, always with a smile, always with a laugh.”

LCPL Collier

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The fund made its first distributions for both Paul VI High School and for Save The Children in January 2006.

Nicholas Cain Kirven

An American Hero

Prompted by the events of September 11, 2001and his selfless devotion to our country, Nicholas joined the United States Marine Corps immediately after graduating from high school in 2002. As part of “Operation Enduring Freedom” Nicholas was killed in action on May 8, 2005 in the remote mountains of Afghanistan. As a squad leader for the 3rd Marines, 3rd Battalion, 3rd Marine Division, Nicholas died fighting for the freedom of the people of our great nation and for the children and people of Afghanistan.

Nicholas Kirven was not only an outstanding Marine but a loving son to Michael and Beth Belle. He was his sister Pride’s best friend and a role model to his brother Joseph. He was a big hearted and talented 21 year old man who was “larger than life”. As he moved through his life, Nicholas touched the hearts of all of those he met. His magnetic personality, humor, and charm would “light up the room”. Simply put, people wanted to be around Nicholas to hear him play the piano, laugh at his impersonations or be on the receiving end of one of his many practical jokes

Fighting for freedom was not the only thing that was of paramount importance to Nicholas while in Afghanistan. He wanted to bring joy, smiles and happiness to the children of this desperately poor country.

Whenever he wrote home it was not to ask for things for himself but rather to ask family and friends to send beanie babies, candy, crayons and toys for the kids. When Nicholas wrote home he said “the people love us” and “we really are making a difference in their lives”.

Nicholas is an American hero who paid the ultimate price with his life to uphold our freedoms and liberties. He knew the risks associated with going to war but he was honored to fight for his country. We must never take our freedom for granted and we must remember
 

“Freedom is Not Free”